Steven & Amy Schneiderman
Hello and welcome to Dating Assistance. I want to extend a warm, personal welcome to all of our visitors, both old and new. If you have a sincere desire to meet someone special, either for friendship or romance, then this is the place.
Why should you use Dating Assistance? It's simple really -- meeting quality people is becoming increasingly more difficult. If you've tried blind dates, introductions through friends and family, and the classified ads and you've been disappointed by who you've met, then
I can certainly relate to your frustration and rejection.
Personally, I have always felt uncomfortable with
the whole dating scene. During my single days, I never went to
bars or clubs to meet people. Like many folks, I socialized within
my own circle of friends. Eventually, my friends wanted to
introduce me to their friends, and that's where things always fell
apart. You think your friends know you, and then they introduce
you to the total opposite of what you want in a mate. My early
blind dates are a blur of disappointments.
In 1993, I relocated from New York to Tulsa, Oklahoma. Talk about culture shock. Not only did I stick out like a sore thumb, but meeting people seemed impossible. Whether it was my personality, the way I spoke, or my mannerisms, I simply did not mix well with the locals.
I finally decided to join a local introduction
service since I had never tried that form of meeting people before. After an extensive four-hour interview, I was charged $1,800.00 and told to wait for my first introduction in the mail.
A few weeks went by, and I grew increasingly apprehensive. "Why
did I subject myself to such a humiliating process?" I asked myself. "Why
do I have to spend so much time and money to meet someone?" I waited and waited for my first introduction to arrive.
When the first name and phone number appeared in my mailbox, I really did not know what to do. I was nervous and had butterflies in my stomach. Finally, after procrastinating for a few days, I called and spoke to my "match." We met for a casual, non-threatening brunch one week later.
Now I had no way of knowing what my match was expecting or the type of person she desired - - I had to trust the introduction service's
intuition and experience in this matter. But in my eyes, this initial introduction was a
total failure because we had nothing whatsoever in common with each other. The
first match was a dud.
I called the introduction service the next day to complain and ask for my money back. Maybe I was
unrealistic, but I expected more for $1,800.00. The service asked for a second chance, and a few days later the next name and number arrived.
Oddly enough, the impossible happened because the lady I met that night eventually became my wife almost a year to the day in 1995, and since then we have added two wonderful children to the family, but together, we had spent about $4,000.00 to meet.
Can two people really find each other this way?
Yes, but you both have to be in the same place at the right time
in your lives to do so. While my wife and I are grateful for the way it all worked out,
we can not imagine others paying so much with the hopes of meeting
their future sweetheart.
Based upon our own experience with introduction
services, we've created
Dating Assistance. Unlike the introduction service we used, you won't have to pay $4,000.00 to join. We've focused on making this service
affordable and easy-to-use.
Your membership is 100% FREE. You'll get your own private
web page where you'll be able to tell people all about yourself and even include a photo of yourself.
When a visitor to
Dating Assistance would like to meet you, they'll pay a low-cost,
non-refundable, fee of only $4.97 to send you a private introductory email. Your address and phone number
will never be given out. It's up to you to respond and screen your
own dates. With Dating Assistance, you are in control at all times.
You can update and edit your listing at any time, so if you're not meeting the type of
people you want to meet, you can change your profile, message or photo. And if you are not happy with our service, you may leave at anytime you want, no questions asked.
Of course, we can not guarantee that you will meet that special someone right away, but we can promise you that meeting people online is both fun and exciting, and with
Dating Assistance you won't go broke in the process!
To your dating success,
Steven Schneiderman
